I think that human beings are mostly and naturally serial monogamists. Couples enrich each other’s live until they don’t anymore, at which point they need a new partner to learn new things from. (Or not).
Then there are the non-bonders, who THINK they want a lover/spouse, but they’re never really ready to make the sacrifices involved in sharing one’s life with another, or are just too picky; the ones who are not very attractive, but who will not settle for anything less than the perfect and gorgeous sweetheart.
It may sound crude, but it’s important to be realistic and pick someone about at your level of desirability, unless you’ve got lots of money!But even then, your victim will get tired of sleeping with you and probably cheat on you.
Isn’t this illegal? Isn’t this extortion? What is going on here?