[defconw]

It is, but if you tell him she died. He mourns all over again and then forgets of course. So we just say she’s not here. :(

[Jonty30]

Sometimes the most merciful thing you can do for a person is to lie to them.

[Aquamarine]

We were told by the Hospice nurse to stop telling my father in law that his wife was dead. She said it started the grieving process all over for him. Saying she is not here is the truth, that's what we did.