You seem to reject the prospect of the father raising them after the marriage ends.
NO, I do not reject the father raising their children, because sometimes he is the one most qualified. Circumstances should dictate who has custody, and I would prefer both have custody, if possible. Ideally, the parents would parent together as one, and stay married.
I think if you read ALL MY COMMENTS, you will find that I don’t agree with liberal women, or men telling their sons to never marry, it isn’t worth it! God says sex without marriage is sin, so who wants to send you children in ungodly lifestyle, that may affect their eternity?
One poster upset me and I unloaded on him, and joked with a few women, who also were attacked viciously. We are human, however, we need to keep the goal in mind..”well raised children, who aren’t permanently damaged by angry parents.”
In order to be brief, I tried to keep answers to the subject matter....NOT that the women bashers cared what I really thought!