The key problems are:
1. Fathers are not treated as equally human parents who deserve as much parenting time as women get
2. Women can divorce men while staying married to men’s money
I am going to clarify your points.
1. Men are resources, utility, to be used by the woman.
2. Women fall in love with mens money and status, not the man. They discard the man but the thing they have always loved, the money, that they keep around.
This...I lost my two sons, 400k, half my property, and my kayak to a narcissist wife. Young men-screw marriage even to a non narc wife. Kids are wonderful and our reason to be but the wife and courts hold them as implements of extortion......