2 people in their late 40s adopt two very young kuds/babies and the paperwork is unclear? Okaaaay....
Wondering if the parents didn’t dare get help because the legality of the adoption was questionable...
God bless those who adopt children from other nations. I mean that. God bless those who adopt - period. They give a priceless gift, and their sacrifice is tremendous.
My wife and I know several couple who have done so. We are inspired by them.
But it is not always a picnic.
On the good side, we know a VERY successful couple who adopted 3 Chinese children. They already had 4 children of their own, but adopted. Today, all of their kids (adopted and biological) are incredible.
On the not so good side, we know couple who adopted kids that live a nightmare.
One adopted girl from Romania is mentally ill and psychotic. She is destructive and criminal. They have tried everything and spent over $100,000 to get her help, but it is all for nothing.
Another couple adopted a boy from Africa. He is emotionally and behaviorally a mess, and has made life for their biological two girls a living hell. They constantly ask for prayer in how to get through this.