You sound like you’ve developed some sexual theory based on a minute of a Jordan Peterson video or an on-line lecture from MGTOW - that community so beloved by divorced male freepers.
So men ALWAYS!!! consider things, huh? Tell that to the sentencing judges.
I think you are being a little harsh on clear case guy. Here is an example of what he is talking about.
The “lady” in the video doesn’t hesitate to start trouble: She knows the resulting violence will not involve her.