I have shared my actual, real life experiences. If they fail to meet your standards, there’s nothing to be done. I can’t change my experiences, nor can I lie about them.
Please avoid putting your words into my fingers.
NO WHERE did I say anything about a need for you to change your history of experiences--even if it were possible.
NO WHERE did I say you needed to or had to fit my standards. Of course, Jesus' standards are the only ones of merit for both of us--or ought to be.
NO WHERE did I suggest, exhort or ask you to lie about your experiences.
Sheesh. Sigh. This got far too tedious a long time ago and I should do some other things. I bothered because I think of you as a sister in Christ worth the bother.