Not wanting a child is perceived as rejection and knocks the person backward when I touch the stored memory. This does not mean that they were not a good caring and loving mother through the childs life. It is stored based upon the experience at that specific moment.
Lack of emotional availability is perceived by the child in the womb as abandonment and the person falls forward, toward me when I touch the stored memory.
They have different influences on personality development.
When you say “touch the stored memory”, are you talking about a brain probe, about deep tissue massage or about talking therapy?