Most of the stuff about Woody and Mia comes from Carter Graydon’s Vanity Fair piece which was approved by Mia and Mia’s mother, Maureen O’Sullivan. That Graydon murders people with prose is nothing new. Long before Sidney Zion became a dear friend of mine (may he rest in peace), he did a murderous article on Sidney and his dead daughter, Libbie. I bought it hook, line and sinker until I learned the real story: that Sidney and his wife, Elsa, were loving parents (not neglectful party animals) and that the overworked doctors made huge mistakes with their patient. That taught me all I needed to know about Vanity Fair. It was and is a despicable publication.
And one other thing: you are right in that too many mothers claim sexual abuse in order to gain custody.
Whether it is divorce or child custody cases, many women lie through their collective teeth, to "get back" at the man and now, even lesbians are doing this.