Are you sure she isn’t my ex-sister-in-law? She is the same way with her three daughters. Oh they are wonderful, they are great and then you are whores, lazy, worthless. And throw in the physical abuse to boot. The oldest finally went away to college, the middle daughter in her mid teens said to hell with this and moved in with her dad, my brother leaving the 14 yr old to take all this nuts abuse.
Before leaving for college the oldest pulled her nut ball mom aside and told her is my baby sister says you have laid one finger on her I will come home and stomp you into a dirty spot. She is nearly 6’8 and could do it!
The ex SIL is bi-polar and in reality, just plain mean and nasty. How my brother tolerated her is fodder for family discussion as it is claimed by the rest of my family I would have put my foot up her arse or thrown her out on the first day of marriage. I contend I punched him in the head one too many times while growing up is why it tolerated ten years of her insanity. Hang in there man!
They say the crazier the woman, the better she is in bed.
I believe there is truth to that. Back in the day where you could handle them as you saw fit, it probably worked. You can’t touch ‘em now, and that leaves them free to abuse to their heart’s content.