[Bryanw92]

>>In my experience, women who are mature are mostly attracted to the person who is stable mentally, emotionally, and financially.

I was talking about women who are still making healthy babies without expensive medical interventions. That’s the 35 and under women. Most of them are still attracted to the bad boy with muscles...or the old man with money.

I agree that “mature” women definitely seek out stability.

[neverevergiveup]

Any woman that doesn't have substance and maturity by age 25 is not someone I would want to have any kind of relationship with. That's just me. Plus, most self-identifying ‘bad boys’ that I've known in my life are complete and utter pu***ys when push comes to shove, so I don't even know what that concept means. Truly ‘tough’ guys, like those who have served in combat, tend to be respectful guys who aren't shallow. That's just my experience. The special operations guys I've known were understated.

I'm not arguing with you, at all. I just think the world is way too superficial to begin with, and I think that being strong in character, with ethics and a willingness to put your life on the line for what is right, is the most pertinent and real type of ‘being tough’, not the stereotypical ‘bad boy’ image.