” Are you smarter than God?”
Do you mean the God that inspired Paul to say “ALL who call on the name of the Lord shall be Saved?”.
There are a bunch of "Grace" preachers today that are confusing the church. God will give us grace, but we must stop our rebellion to God. These lesbians may be nice people, but they are teaching the boy wrong things. It could even doom him to hell if he never learns the truth.
If you remember, Jesus told the woman caught in adultery to go and sin no more. He had just shown her mercy, but He wanted to make sure she knew this was NOT a blank check. If you sin knowingly after experiencing the Holy Spirit, the sacrifice for sin NO LONGER REMAINS. Be careful that you don't come before God and He says, I never knew you. There will be people that eat with Him(communion), and prophesy in His name that He never knew. Saying you are Christian is much different that being one. If you can't agree with what sin is and is not, you have carved out an idol that is not the God of the Bible. God will not ask your permission to put sinners in hell. People will go to Hell because they rejected the offer God sent to save them. It's very common today for people the be living in sin and go to church on Sunday thinking God doesn't care because it's the 21st century. He still cares about murdering babies and sodomy, fornication, lying, adultery, envy, pride, and any one of a dozen more sins that have been sins from the beginning. We must dedicate our lives to Jesus and follow what He would do to be His. Judas followed Jesus but never loved Him.