[hinckley buzzard]

Don't be a jerk. Just pick up the tab. If she doesn't at least show appreciation after a couple dates, dump her. She's the jerk.

[TheWriterTX]

The one who asks pays. My husband always paid when we dated and still does to this day, but since I am an inexpensive date (don’t drink alcohol and prefer salads) he doesn’t seem to mind eating steak while I eat the pre-dinner greens.