1985 he spies this lovely blonde who’s alas with her husband
He pinches her butt anyhow and grins under the influence
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That is hardly a hero.
Perhaps not a gentleman.
But heroes are different stuff.
Heroes put their own lives in harm’s way for their friends or duty.
Heroes are often flawed in ways that disturb other people because a normal man thinks twice when it comes to putting his life on the line.
Heroes don’t hesitate to do that and other things like pinching a beautiful woman’s behind.
You seem to be confusing hero with role model. The one isn’t necessarily the other, far from it.
De mortuis nihil nisi bonum
There’s a time and a place for everything. And now’s not the time.