this is crap. what you are implying is certainly crap. and it doesn't exonerate jefferson fromn the more than likely true allegation that he was kocking up his human property for decades.
I doubt that TJ flirted with AA, but I am sure that he flirted with treason during the adams administration.
at any rate, first, define "flirtatious". secondly, the adamses and thomas jefferson feuded with great verbal violence for decades (feralists vs. the republicans) before they reestablished their friendship via letters (easier, since they hated the wight of each other) MANY years later.
Have you read the letters? I have.
I dare say you’d want your wife receiving such.