Well, then, practice objectivity rather than being so doggedly insistent that one and only one possibility could be the truth. Learn to preface such statements qualifying it as opinion, or that you suspect it to be true. Don’t just plow into it claiming truth when the truth has not been adequately demonstrated. Take up genealogy, go try to submit a shaky line to the DAR and see how far it gets you. Then, maybe, you’ll understand the errors you’re making here.
My 10th generation ancestor received a land grant in NC from Lord Granville.
I think I'm good.