Having to compete with women in the labor forces has made me feel more harsh to women. “Strong and independent”, go change your own tire woman.
Talking about the options you mention also extend to women make me think. This thread has many guys, myself included, talking about going overseas for a wife that isn’t imbued with feminism. Funny thing is that women can do the same thing. But when they complain that they can’t find a man, what is stopping them from going abroad? I’ll tell you. They want a man’s resources. What man overseas that is rich enough to afford an American shrew is going to want her back? That leaves poor men. And as the women are not going abroad for husbands, I conclude that contrary to what women say, it is about the money.
Money is part of it. It is the power and security of a man the woman wants because if he does not have this, she has no use for him. Without this he cannot fulfill her goal, which is to be better off than she was before.
Women want men to want them, but not to need them. Once a man needs a woman, she doesnt want him.
Family Guy cartoon had an episode where the husband states he only married her for her looks. She drops her beauty regimen and turns ugly. He cant get past it and blinds himself in order to fall in love with the person. He cant work and explains that she will now be the provider. She whines, i didnt get married to be the provider, i got married to be provided for. She finally saw that her reason was just as shallow as his yet she ripped him up and down the whole episode for his.
They unwittingly accurately described the basic male/female sexual strategies.