>>>I thought these same women have said that pregnancy is a disease. They cant have it both ways.<<<
I think desire makes a difference. Like when women have abortions it’s just a fetus or a clump of cells. Or when they want the baby and the ultrasound shows the woman her “baby.”
The whole “everything is whatever the woman wants it to be, and she can change her mind anytime” bs has gotten really, really tiresome.