Women picking childish men to marry are to blame for their having kids late in life.
The knee jerk reaction to fixing women’s problems is to change society. The knee jerk reaction to fixing men’s problems is to change men.
Sounds like a whole city of childish me me me babies.
BS. Reap what you sow. While men have issues YOU WOULD NOT BELIEVE the issues women have.
Well looky here. Another article using shaming language against men. Men who choose not to have children are “childish”. Not responsible, not thoughtful, not focused, but childish.
MGTOW
This article touches on how college educated women want to be with college educated men. And that there are more college educated women than men in this country.
Some may disagree, but seems to me, that women can be harshly judged if they are not with someone if equal or greater education/income/career status.
Does anyone ever harshly judge professional men who marry a secretary or file clerk or someone who is hired help in a department store?? Yet a professional woman marrying someone who works at Target in some hired help job is unusual.
34 year old Kate is a dumbass.
Land of the Snow Flakes.
Most of our kids are married, and we now have 18 grandchildren. Quite a few of them are over to our house today for Mother’s Day. But the younger kids are having problems finding someone who wants to marry, have children, and make a family. They are millenials.
A New York woman blaming men for the plight of women. How utterly unsurprising.
would ol Kate go for a pre nup?
I thought women delayed it cause of like, the patriarchy, and their career, feminism, marriage doesn’t matter, men are evil and cats?
Well, women who want children and family have to make decisions about their careers and lives.
Many people graduate from college at age 21 or 22. Then assuming people get on a career path, the woman faces a situation in which her fertility will have a noticeable decline in less than 10 years. Or look at another way she’s got less than 10 years to get the career on a firm foundation, so she can be in a position to take time to have a baby.
Everyone’s different, I realize. Just generalizing that it is harder to conceive the older a woman gets.
On a personal note, my wife and I had two children while she was in her mid 20s. We abandoned birth control entirely when she was 29 as we were open to more but we never got pregnant again. We know women can conceive into their 40s but I’m just saying the odds go down he longer women wait.
And what did awesome Kate do from high school to age 34?
meat in the freezer always tastes funny. Freezing eggs can’t be all dandy.
Maybe the guy realizes the courts are stacked against men if the marriage fails and children are involved.
Perhaps he wants to avoid the trap.
Maybe he realizes that the driven woman may want a child as an acccesory and not as a precious gift from God that requires placing the child in front of her “needs.”
Just a thought.
Nearly 60 years of radical “feminism,” abortion on demand, no-fault divorce, denigration of men, masculinity, and fatherhood, mass drugging of boys with ADHD medicines, Federal and family laws & regulations that heavily favor women, false rape and sexual harassment claims made by women constantly.
And some ditz has the gall to whine about women not having children because of “childish” men?! Look in the mirror, *****, and see the one to blame.
Advice for American men: Don’t marry American women — 3.25 billion candidates in other parts of the world.
She might look at it from the perspective that he knows if he makes children, but then fails, not just him, but her and the child will be destitute - and he will be blamed for it.
Likewise, he could just be crippled if he falls out of favor with her, and gets a sizeable alimony and child support fine leveled against him. Thus guaranteeing that he would never be successful, and always be in thrall.
New York people are weird.
Kate needs a new boyfriend - nay, a husband.
This guy is just using an excuse under the time-tested understanding of why buy the cow.
I can’t blame a woman for not wanting to have kids if there is no guy i(who has his act together) in the equation.