Been there and done that. Most of the women I’ve seen on these dating sites are looking for a country club life style. They’re not looking for a man - they’re looking for an ATM and/or a doormat.
Then stay away from dating websites.
Because that is not representative of most women I know.
Matter of fact, I'd say that these days, the money is not even as much a factor as character. Most women are employable and can earn their own money.
A man being rich and providing financial security is not quite the draw it used to be because it's not as needed as it used to be.