[metmom]

When men are completely taken by surprise when their wives leave them, (and it’s rarely for another man) it just MAY be, because they were so determined to have their own way, that they didn’t notice how miserable their wives were.

I've come to the same conclusion.

I have friends whose wives have left them and they did NOT see it coming.

I did. Could have told them years ago. But they wouldn't have listened.

Yup, the men are so self-absorbed that they just don't notice what others are going through. And to not even pick up on it in your own wife, who you live with?

[Flaming Conservative]

Exactly.