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I saw this article and am amazed. Apparently this not common knowledge among women. Just a few years ago I was busy trying online dating. And this article really confirms what I saw. I saw women writing profiles that looked to me that they would impress other women. Yapping about one inane thing after another. They would have done better if they wrote a profile showing they would be kind and loving. But they were too busy writing about expensive vacations they like taking (red flag), going on an on about their career (boring) or their education (yawn) maybe they just weren't kind at all.
1 posted on 05/11/2017 10:02:05 PM PDT by BJ1
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Ping Megan dear!


46 posted on 05/12/2017 3:16:13 AM PDT by KC_Lion (Proud Keeper of the Sarah Palin and New First Lady Melania Ping Lists. Let me know if you want on.)
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Well, the author is wrong, of course. Many modern men want a different kind of trophy wife: highly educated with a very good job. Domestic skills unnecessary. Then when they marry, they produce highly intelligent kiddies; a sort of Charles Murray kind of family. This is why Washington is so screwed up - it’s dominated by career, success and power rather than common humanity and morality.

Good luck! Hope you find a good woman!


48 posted on 05/12/2017 3:38:58 AM PDT by miss marmelstein
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Most of what women do to attract men is really for other women.

My son was telling me once ( when he was a teen) that most guys aren’t attracted to women’s perfume, but if a girl wore Axe, for example, guys would think she’s really hot. He said guys LIKE the smell of Axe and would think a girl who smelled like that was pretty cool.

Goes against everything we are told these days.

FWIW, I can’t stand most women’s perfume either.


50 posted on 05/12/2017 4:49:35 AM PDT by metmom ( ...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith...)
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in reality wanted a bad boy.

I don't know if this is true of all women. But it is certainly true of a segment of women that create problems in our society. Many women on welfare have had marriage proposals from nice men who work, have money and would support those women. But those women on welfare want Bad Boys and reject the nice men. There is nothing that any government program can do about this. That is a major reason why government poverty programs don't work.

58 posted on 05/12/2017 5:13:21 AM PDT by spintreebob
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Been there and done that. Most of the women I’ve seen on these dating sites are looking for a country club life style. They’re not looking for a man - they’re looking for an ATM and/or a doormat.


61 posted on 05/12/2017 5:21:14 AM PDT by Noumenon ("Only the dead have seen an end to war.")
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A woman who’s nice? Good luck with that!


64 posted on 05/12/2017 5:42:08 AM PDT by Snowybear
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Someone once said: “Treat a lady like a whore and a whore like a lady”


79 posted on 05/12/2017 6:49:53 AM PDT by lewislynn
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Well then, you don't get it.

Increasing marriage is one sided. Men are an accessory.

80 posted on 05/12/2017 6:51:37 AM PDT by gogeo (When your life is based on a false premise...you are indeed insane.)
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Don’t women want the same thing? A man who’s nice?
An old adage: "Nice guys finish last"
81 posted on 05/12/2017 6:57:40 AM PDT by lewislynn
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Men want to be loved and sex

Women want different things kind of


97 posted on 05/12/2017 8:35:24 AM PDT by wardaddy (Multiculturalism: Everyone wants to inhabit the world of white men with no white men in it)
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That’s because just as most men are attracted to femininity, or softness, most women are attracted to masculinity. And masculinity is hard. Gruff. Take charge.

It amazes me how almost universally women think like this. The perceive gruff hard as leadership traits. Well ladies some of the greatest leaders in history were not like that at all. General R. E. Lee being one of them. He was a gentlemen and exhibit none of those qualities. Audie Murphy is another. The greatest quality a man can exhibit is selflessness. The greatest bosses I had the fortune to work for were like that.

117 posted on 05/12/2017 10:13:28 AM PDT by central_va (I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn.)
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I married nice but she is also great!


128 posted on 05/12/2017 11:09:28 AM PDT by CodeToad (If it weren't for physics and law enforcement, I'd be unstoppable!)
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Man to women: Make me a ‘nice’ samwich
Women to man: I will add a special ingredient for extra flavor but first sign these insurance papers.


146 posted on 05/12/2017 1:00:01 PM PDT by minnesota_bound
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I’ll settle for under 70 and breathing...


183 posted on 05/12/2017 5:08:47 PM PDT by Paleo Pete (Of all the things I've lost, I miss my mind the most.)
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