Today’s culture teachers teach women hypergamy is aok! So “just being” and not lifting a finger is just fine in a relationship; and if he does not like it - hes a misogynist, narcissist, whatever. Its really bad advice.
Took my daughter to watch The Smurfs last Saturday. Reserved seating, reclining leather seats. We sat down next to a mother and her 2 boys ages ~ 4 and 6. We were the only people in the row. The mother was 30-ish, tall, thin, blue-eyed with long blond hair with what appeared to be a permanent scowl. Not appealing at all and she had expensive shoes and purse. During the movie she started body flirting with me. As my daughter was sitting between us it disgusted me. I looked to the side to watch the movie to get her to turn it off. Not interested at all.
At the end of the movie, walking out her boys ran ahead. I asked the older boy how he liked the movie. He said it was ok (yeah, it’s a chick flick). The boys were muted to the point of seeming depressed. Noted. So where’s dad? At that point I figured something bad had transpired with their dad, not by accident.
So, outside walking to our car my daughter and I walk past them. As we go by I hear the older boy say to his mother “I liked it but I wish dad was here”. To which the mother responded “he doesn’t have the money to see it. That’s why he’s in jail.”