It's all true. Not flattering, perhaps, but all true.
The system has been stacked against men to the degree the only choice available is "no."
You are right and it starts in college with the kangaroo court system for sexual assault. Girls admit that they report guys for rape to get back at them for not staying the next morning to cuddle (true case, son’s friend) and the boys get suspended for a year.
Normal male female camaraderie and banter is being played as sexual assault. Try calling someone gorgeous. The current political & social climate is poisonous to intimacy because instead of free speech/”sticks & stones will hurt my bones but words will never harm me” we have hate speech “if it makes me feel bad”. We have become a Nation of ninnies.