I agree. That's why, after over 30 years, we still have sex at least 4 times a week. It takes being willing to spend time. If the guy takes the time to give her her orgasm first, then things tend to go better.
I may vomit. I guess TMI means nothing to you.
Good point. Not to get too graphic, but I have learned to get down in there, and provide delight for her, even before we move on to “the main event”........