This is a sad reflection of our society any way you look at it. Tinder and Bumble are a horrible way to find relationships as both are pretty much booty call sites. That has resulted in women who give it away and men who don’t want to commit. That results in Peter Pan men, and women who hear that clock in the crocodile ticking away. That results in children being born without the benefit of a father to help raise them. Which results in the further downfall of our society.
Again. Sad.
As a group, the current 20 somethings value their friends more than family. They also value marriage and children at historically low rates of importance.
In other words, what was conventional thinking for WW2 generation, boomers and even the GenXers, is no longer the case today. Settling down, getting married for life and having some kids is not necessarily considered necessary for a successful life to a very large number of millennials.
Now I am not blaming them. If the GenXers and Boomers showed a more attractive family life, I’m sure things would be different.