I can tell you flat out this passenger guy is an ahole. I see his type quite often during business travel. Looks like a typical loudmouth northeastern democrat. He is just as likely to act like this toward a woman, as he did toward this gay employee of AA - just hasn’t been caught on video.
I can assure you I would gladly get in this passenger’s face at a moments notice, because I’ve done it before when his type decides to berate some other victim. Bully’s like him are usually easy to have their bluff called.
We will just have to disagree here. You see something different than I do in this video.
If chivalry to you means protecting the gay flight attendant against the mean ol’ hetero protecting a mother and child, then yes, we shall have to disagree.