The origin of the problem is the mindset of the parents. I teach young people that when you date you are auditioning a parent for your children.
Too many men seek nothing but hot sex, and too many women are looking for someone to shower them with the affection they crave. They miss the whole point of marriage, which is to create and rear the next generation.
>Too many men seek nothing but hot sex, and too many women are looking for someone to shower them with the affection they crave. They miss the whole point of marriage, which is to create and rear the next generation.
Actually in the modern dating market most of the women are chasing hot sex while a minority of men are getting most of it on a rotating basis. The vast majority of men would like nothing better than to get married and have a family but women are too busy screwing around and working making it largely impossible.
This is a pretty common in collapsing civilizations and the solution is a return to patriarchy.
“and too many women are looking for someone to shower them with the affection they crave. “
All too often this affection they did not get from a father? Come on we know it’s true.