You are one smart cookie.
My uncle is a triple dipper...he has pensions from the military, the private sector, and social security. He has an annual income of close to 6 figures. He is (currently) unmarried.
He has been married four times. The last one drained his savings accounts before divorcing him. She was Mormon and had lapsed in her “tithes” and basically had to buy her way back into their good graces...with his money.
My uncle is still a softy. His housekeeper got behind on her car payments, so he got her out of the mess and co-signed a loan for a new car. Repeat 3 times! Her current car payment is almost $800 and he is paying it!
The girl that grooms his cat gave him a sob story about an abusive boyfriend so he helped her get her own apartment by co-signing the lease. He is now paying for her apartment as she “isn’t making as much as she used to.”
I have developed a very jaded opinion of women and money. So many are not much better than whores. Very sad.
A soft heart can be a soft target for all sorts of predatory creatures and spirits.
Caveat emptor.