There are still some good women out there.
If you question your judgment, then ask friends or family for their opinion. They can see far more objectively than others can.
Take note of subtle things about a woman, like how she relates to her family and odd comments she makes about others. They can tell you volumes about someone.
The problem most people run into is that they are so desperate for love that they ignore the warning signs and end up in trouble. You are wise for having the wherewithal to not fall into that.
While wisdom is not something I can legally claim for my self, I do know that experience is a good teacher...eventually.
I'm not sure I've learned the right answers, but hopefully I'm asking better questions these days.
In truth, my natural self seems to be sorta like Forrest Gump with Tears for Algernon, which sucked in my youth but is kinda blissful the older I get, so no worries.
Growing up, I didn't have a lot of examples, good or bad, to study and model, just a lot of blank spaces and questions without answers, good or bad.
From what I've seen in others and myself, those blank spaces often don't know what fits best and the ego is the wrong place to seek answers, making the learning process quite a bit more challenging and damaging than it needs to be.
Plus, the world of these last few decades has made things even more confusing for everyone, even those who seem to be whole and complete.
Be careful where you step. Lots of damage everywhere one looks!
With this iPad, I don't always catch the evil Dr. Otto Korrect "fixing" things without me, but I think that one was mine.
Oh well, sorry about that...
There are no good women.
Period.
I’m staying away from them all. Porn works just fine.