15 years or so ago now...sitting in a Cuban restaurant in Miami with my uncle. We ordered caldo gallego (Gaulician soup: https://www.bigoven.com/recipe/caldo-gallego-spanish-white-bean-soup/193379) for the starter. The waitress pokes him in the belly and says “No frijoles por usted. Gordo!”. “No bean soup for you, hot shot. You’re too fat.”. We still laugh about that night.
Thankfully the waitress wasn’t fired and the establishment sued for their offensive cacomorphobia.