I am a mom of 2 ladies , and i can assure you, if I saw them doing anything remotely like this when they were in school, they would have their butts home on the next plane, or pay for their edu. themselves. They would have had to glue my mouth shut not to hear me bitching.
and yeah, now that SI swimsuit issue had that really very heavy girl on the cover, that is in style now.
I have three girls. I saw girls in high school, small school girls who I thought were raised better, push limits with dress and behavior. I did not want my girls going down that road so we were known as pretty mean parents. It seems to have served them well in college and beyond. They still love us and come home as often as possible. But there was a time to buckle down and say hell no and thankfully my husband was a no nonsense dad and so was I. But my husband, thank the Lord.