There was a similar debate in Vietnam. Reliance on Air-to-Air missiles degraded dogfighting skills. And the AA missiles weren’t as effective as advertised. Of course, technology has improved since then, but its still a cautionary tale.
There is a good chance we won't ever know the actual limits of the aircraft, just like we don't know what the F-22 can really do. Pure speculation, but the F-35 pilot's confidence in the WVR arena is part maneuverability and part eye watering off boresight weapons system, all aspect sensors, and an unmatched helmet.
And they added a gun pod because missiles were not the end-all to dog-fighting.