Ladies, here are the Cliff Notes version of dealing with young men:
1. Young men think about sex - a lot.
2. If a woman gets drunk and flirts with a young man, he will think about sex even more.
Side note: This is why bars have ‘ladies night’ and ‘happy hour’. It seems that long ago, men discovered that liquor loosens women.
Conclusion (as a father of a young daughter), I recommend young women should not go to a bar alone (without other girlfriends) and generally should not drink heavily around men.
Call me a caveman...but frankly a lot of young men act like cavemen.
It's so easy anyone can do it.
Girls want to and guys want to. The societal pressures are what they are, not what they used to be. Alcohol loosens inhibitions. It also loosens psychosis.
As to marriage being the only place for sex, half of all marriages are a failure and the other half divorce. People screw up. They also screw down and sideways and it's not just the crazy ones doing it.
The advice I give my kids is to avoid people who have more psychological problems than they themselves have.