In other words , after getting a divorce and spending the bulk of her youth playing around with toy boys 10-20 years younger than her she is now getting old enough that the toy boys don’t want to play for free.
Now she wants to be the partner of some one her own age to build a life with but it seems that life has passed her by.
Problem is, men 10-20 years younger are unobtainable to her, but women 10-20 years younger are obtainable to guys her own age or older.
Common problem for 30 and 40 something divorced women.
Rather than seen their time looking for a great second husband while they are still young, they want to play the cougar and screw around with much younger men. Great fun while it lasts, but once it’s over - they are over and increasing their Match.com age profiles for prospective partners from 10 years younger to 25 years older.
Another “carousel rider” meets reality.