My 2nd Great Grandmother lost her husband during the civil war. Two of her sons enlisted in the Union Army and three of her sons (along with her husband) had enlisted in the Confederate Army. With all the men off to war it was just her and her daughters to farm the land. When the war was over she moved to where her three sons lived in Arkansas. I think she understood real loss.
And this woman is unable to deal with her candidate losing an election. It is fortunate she has not found a man to share her life she would end up making his life miserable.
As we used to say “that lady will make someone a fine ex-wife”.