Since returning to the states as a single guy, I see a well developed pattern...divorced women with children are everywhere. Most of the ones I have dated or know work 2 or more jobs and are very unhappy. IMO it’s easier for them to get divorced and get a child support check than to actually deal with adversity. With all the new snowflakes coming up through the ranks it’s only going to get worse.
My first work manager told me be careful because the screwing you will get will not be worth the screwing you will get if you ever procreate with one of this type.
I’m no longer of an age where I’m dating but I can only imagine the picking are pretty slim for any guy active.