I’ve heard of ones like that. One son/dil spent way too much on theirs. More than they could afford ($6000 or so) it wasn’t so much except THEY COULDNT AFFORD IT.
Our wedding? About $1500 for wedding and reception. We what is the forwarded whatever but we didn’t want to waste money we wanted it to be very small and meaningful. We were both very very joy-filled over the day! Null and Void came to our wedding!
THEY COULDNT AFFORD IT.....I know what you mean. My last wedding was “Hey, woman, get in the truck.” Still with her for 22 years.