“She has a ton of qualities I want. Very attractive physically; great sense of humor; understands my sense of humor. Intelligent.”
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We all like that kind of thing but the attributes that REALLY count are stability,empathy,honesty,and the ability to REALLY listen.
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VERY unstable.
Limited empathy, in a variety of self-oriented situations demanding my time/money.
Unsure honesty. Indicators are all over.
Unsure on ability to really listen: