Don’t worry. We old ladies are children of the Sixties and we can make a young sailor blush. Guaranteed.
Not one of my friends aged 67-75 gives a rat’s hind end about a freaking word or male ego on display. Rape is altogether different. Enabling rape? What the old ladies say is “How the he!! could any self-respecting woman stay with a man who was unfaithful, let alone a rapist and then help him by trying to destroy the victims?”
You learn over time to respect and admire alpha males. Yeah, they can be obnoxious. So what? Who do you want to be with when there’s danger all around? Not some pearl-clutcher.
Read up on the history of the Free Speech Movement.