When I read comments like yours that show you have no tolerance for the slightest bit of honesty. No matter how reasoned. I think of the new expression:
Snow Flake.
You need to admit the truth before you can have a chance at fixing the damage.
You shouldn’t make assumptions about people whom you don’t know. I am the furthest thing from a snowflake as you could imagine.
You seem pretty low-energy to me.