[Joachim]

IMO, Marriage is not as much about love as about commitment. In most cases what you get from it is in proportion to what you put in.

If he is ready willing and able to commit his whole life and loyalty to her, and she hers to him, they are not too young.

[dr_lew]

IMO, Marriage is not as much about love as about commitment.

I was lookin' for that, and there it was in Post 50.

In most cases what you get from it is in proportion to what you put in.

That's right. It's all about "me" ... like the song says, "It's me, it's me, it's me O Lord ..."