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In some regards, it IS because they put their careers first.
Instead of working on their career but focusing on finding a partner in their 20s, when attractiveness and selection is great, they often drop guys who want to commit in their late 20s saying “no kids now, no marriage now”, losing perfectly good partners by putting them last.
Once they hit their 30s and NOW want to settle down, the best choices are usually already married and the remainder are split between permanent bachelors, divorced who are reluctant to commit and the lesser choices that too many settle for, have a kid with and divorce, then hating all men.

I’ve observed this myself, when I married my husband at 23 and was told I was too young. Had my first child at 26 and had professional women tell me I was derailing my career, should wait five to ten more years. I brought up that in ten years, I might not be able to have children.
Now I’m in my late 30s with one in elementary and one in middle school. We’ve watches some single women struggle to find partners, now that they finally look for them, a few marry and divorce late, some struggle now to have children according to the feminist ideal that violates biology (have fun until 35, then try to have a baby before it is too late).

The ideal time to find a partner is in your twenties, due to maturity, selection and biology. Feminists said wait until your 30s or even 40s, it is just as good.

The liberal left has been denying biology for ideology for years. The transgenderism (if we say a man is a woman when he puts on a dress then it proves there’s no difference between men and women) is only the more radical result of denying biology for ideology.

No offense to women, but there is nothing more pathetic than an attractive 35 year old woman who’s never been married with no kids.

You know they hear their biological clicking, and even though they had “plenty” of chances to settle down with a man, it never worked out right.

Now the only men available are the ones with baggage.

They had their chance, but the men just were not good enough.

In the end, there is a skill to attract a good man to want to marry you. And looks and attractiveness is just a small part of that skill.

Well said.
I was single into my 30’s.
When I finally got serious about finding a wife, what I found was that I had started too late.
Of the women of age 30+, the good ones were already married.
The rest were by and large divorced, divorced or single with kids, or if never married, had good reasons for that status.
Some were looking for Mr. Perfect (and I was Mr. Pretty Good only). The real lookers were holding out for Mr. GoodBucks...which meant that me, without the fancy car and fat wallet, never got anywhere with them.
Finally went to a small farming village in OutInTheStick, China and got a GREAT wife!!!