You have not, of course actually watched the video. Not enough time has elapsed.
You are suggesting, of course, that those who oppose spanking are recommending that people raise their children the way Harris and Klebold were raised.
Which suggestion is, of course, moronic.
I DID watch the video and it's a bunch of bunk...The Lady claims that when your kid writes on the wall up to 5 consecutive times, you negotiate with the kid to come up with a mutually acceptable punishment, each time...That's nuts...
What if the kid isn't interested in a punishment??? You punish him anyway...Take away his/her Xbox...
And then the kid gets angry and ignores the pen and goes after the wall with a hammer...More negotiation, eh??? Nutso...