What I am trying to get across ineptly and cursorily, was laid out perfectly by G.K. Chesterton in his What's Wrong with the World.
Interesting. My aunt got married in the Oakland Humanist Hall a few years ago. The ceremony was a cross between New Age practices and Jewish tradition (husband is a secular Jew), and the "minister" was an Asian female spiritualist.
Strangest wedding I've ever been to, and it sounds like it's not as unique as I though it was.