And why only men? I shoot better than most men, am better armed (once voted best armed Freeperette) and reload my own ammo. Most guys you describe couldn’t hit the broad side of a barn and I wouldn’t trust with weapons.
I can hit the broad side of a barn. From three miles away.
You are welcome to load, drive, shoot or command me. But you cannot do all four, at least not at the same time, and neither can I. And I can fill you in on any training upgrade you might require via OJT.