[LadyDoc]

In my prayers.

but what you need is a visiting nurse or home health aid. The nurse can train your wife and family helpers, and evaluate what you need, such as renting commodes or wheel chairs.

insurance often pays for this. And many church groups send help in such emergencies.

and watch your bowels.? Pain meds cause severe constipation.

[ShadowAce]

but what you need is a visiting nurse or home health aid. The nurse can train your wife and family helpers,

yes. we have those, but my road rash is bad enough that she is not capable of doing the work due to the pain it inflicts during cleaning, etc.

i am improving, but the stress level is still high for her.