Hmm, even the replacement office manager is almost 60 something. Albeit everyone that did leave is over 40.
They fail to realize that any volunteers will not be young. By alienating the older folks this way, they have cut their throat with the volunteer base. Everyone knew the secretary and loved her.
This is not a wise move by the church. I’m sorry you two are dealing with this at her age but I know a lot of people who are in the same boat.