You sound like a great guy. :o)
Years and years later, she's still spun up about the whole thing. If I had to guess she's really just more worried about what nurse did to (younger, easier to bully, less confident, less prepared/smart/etc) women than anything else. I know that she followed through with the hospital, but I don't know what the final outcome was.
My lovely wife is absolutely right, the nurse was inexcusably awful. We ran into a few other people that were entirely too pushy about breastfeeding, as well, but this one was the worst. Dunno what drives people into Command Mode about this topic, it always seemed that there were simple solutions for every situation regarding it, to me.