Correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't see why anyone should be bent out of shape by this. I mean, it's not my religion, but it's no skin off my nose, either.
It's also not my job to decide whether this is within or outside of proper Jewish fidelity to their religious customs. There's no way I, a Christian Gentile, have any reasonable way to have an opinion on that.
You're not wrong. I put a couple links in post 18 explaining the concept.